Tuesday, 4 November 2014

Suffer The Pain Of Discipline OrThe Pain Of Regret


I am neither a spendthrift nor an impulse buyer. But at times the temptation is too much. And this has taught me a valuable lesson. I visited a prestigious shop one day and was attracted to a brown handbag which was unique beautiful and big enough for my stuffs. I had to buy it.  I never got to use the bag due to the fact that I had to carry a laptop most of the time to the office and during the field trips. This bag was completely forgotten.
Now, three months later, I saw a handbag in one of the shops, it was brown and beautiful and I immediately fell in love with it. I bought it. I had a nagging feeling that I had seen such a bag somewhere or with someone but I could not remember where or with whom. Of course as usual, I did not use it immediately. After some days, I got the chance to use my handbag and match it my brown clothes and as I was removing the handbag, I could not believe it as I saw to identical handbags in fact by the same manufacturer one was a shade browner than the other but I could not even tell which one I bought first and in which shop. I could not return any of them to the shop since I had long thrown the receipts.

How could I? I kept asking myself. I should have bought something else at least essential. But the milk had spilt and could not be collected. I learnt a hard lesson on the need of self discipline and particularly planning. It’s your turn to choose, and choices have consequences, would you rather suffer the pain of discipline or the pain of regret?

Tuesday, 29 July 2014

The Brain Can Remember up to 1000 List of Names or Numbers




I paid a courtesy call to one director of health who had been appointed in one of the counties. He was a jolly and welcoming doctor. As he introduced himself, I noted down his name on my book and he quickly noticed it. He pointed out that, I had written his name so that I could not forget it and he was right. “You know the human brain can remember up to 1000 names or numbers without referring no matter how many digits they have”,  the doctor pointed out. “We forget because we choose to, this is with an exception to any person with brain damage due to an accident or sickness”.

This was an amazing revelation and I decided to start exercising my brain so that I could preserve my memory. Having a great memory is not inborn. One does not need to consult diaries or telephone books. Just like exercising, using the memory consistently initiates stronger remembrance.


Nothing is ever really lost to us as long as we remember it.”   Montgomery, L.M.